38. To Richera
Anselm, archbishop of Canterbury, to his dearly-loved sister Richera, greeting; and in all her troubles may she be comforted of God.
I know, best-beloved sister, that except your husband, there is no man in the world of whose health and prosperity you would so wish to know and hear as of mine, and of that of your son Anselm who is with me: for I am your only brother, and he is your only son. As to what relates to us, our messengers could tell you by word of mouth better than I can in writing. Know however that your son, my dearest nephew, having after he left you, suffered from a long and serious illness, has however by the mercy of God regained perfect health. Then as to myself I can say that I am well in body; but my heart is disturbed by many vexations, Through the fear of God I dare not fly from England; and yet I cannot here dwell in any peace or tranquillity or quiet. Each day my heart is agitated as though I were going to depart on the next; but however it may be with me, I rejoice for you, for your messengers have brought me word of your health and prosperity. Seeing however that both the prosperity and adversity of this life are short and transitory, let us despise them, and fly from everlasting adversity while striving by a good life to merit perpetual prosperity. Therefore, most dear sister, since in this life you cannot have that which would delight your soul, turn it entirely towards God, that in a future life it may enjoy Him. Farewell. Should your husband return, and wish to come and see me, I desire him by no means to come.
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