Chapter XXXVIII. Of Two Rules for Living in Peace

ALTHOUGH he who lives according to what has been already laid down will abide continually in peace, I will in this last chapter give two rules, which are also included in what has been said, by keeping which, you will live as quiet as is possible in this wicked world.

One is, to endeavour more and more to keep the door of your heart closed against desires, for desire is the long beam of the cross, and of anxiety, which will encumber you according to the greatness of the desire. And if the desires be for many things, the more will be the beams, which are prepared for many crosses. Then, when difficulties and obstacles in the way of the gratification of the desires arise, in these behold the other beam which forms the arms of the cross, to which is nailed the soul that yields to desires.

Whoever then would not have the cross, let him not desire, and if he finds himself on the cross, let him give up the desire; for as soon as he gives up the desire, he shall come down from the cross. It is the only remedy.

The other rule is, that when you are vexed or offended by others, do not let the thought rest in your mind, neither give way to such considerations as these: "That they have no business to treat me like this; who are they, or what do they think of themselves, or the like," for all this is adding fuel to the fire of anger, indignation, and hatred.

But have recourse at once in such cases to the Strength and Commands of God, in order that you may know what you ought to do, lest perchance your error may be worse than theirs. For in this way you shall return into the path of virtue and peace.

For if you cannot deal rightly with yourself, what marvel is it if others do not deal rightly with you?

And if you delight in taking vengeance on those who offend you, first you ought to take vengeance upon yourself, than whom you have not a greater enemy or offender.